sea: support argv in sea config

[hotpineapple]

implement argv config for sea including snapshot

this resolves todo message:

// TODO(joyeecheung): make the arguments configurable through the JSON
// config or a programmatic API.

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/single-executable

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 83.58209% with 11 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 89.95%. Comparing base (b9fa656) to head (99ec9a4).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/node_sea.cc	83.58%	6 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Hits       177407   177464   +57     
+ Misses      12242    12207   -35     
- Partials     7558     7599   +41     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_sea.cc	85.66% <83.58%> (-0.54%)	⬇️

... and 37 files with indirect coverage changes

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